Maybe someone can help me...
What do you say to a family that loses a loved one?
I know this isn't an easy question to answer, I've been struggling with it for two days now. What makes it all the more difficult is the fact that the lost loved one was only 18.
Yeah, I've been here before. I've been to a few funerals...more than I can count...remember, I was in an honor guard. I never liked them when I didn't know the person in the casket and I really don't like them when it's someone I know.
How can you put into words how bad your heart aches for a friend when they lose a child? Parents aren't supposed to have to bury their kids. Our kids are supposed to be the ones that have to live with the heart ache of losing parents. Parents aren't supposed to have to put up with the heart ache of losing a child.
What do you tell your friends that might make it feel just a bit better? And an even better question that no one has ever been able to answer for me...if there is a god in heaven why would he take an 18 year old boy away from his parents? Why does your god take the good ones and leave the bad ones? My friends' son dies and assholes get to live and kill kids or molest them or both. WTF???
Who the hell is running this animal house anyway???
I guess that old saying...life just ain't fair...is way to accurate today.
AJ, Julie, Nick, Eric and Anthony...I'm so sorry for your loss...Kory J. Reardon 1988-2006
Rest in Peace young man